As it says in The Piercing Bible:
"The contrast of metal jewelry through the flesh of a nipple is exotic and striking. This piercing defines the region, frames the tissue, and makes the nipple stand at attention (though it doesn’t necessarily cause it to remain erect at all times). Prior to the early 1990s, when navel piercings became popular, nipples were the most prevalent location for body piercings, and they remain in widespread demand today.
Some piercing enthusiasts—particularly in the gay and SM subcultures— explored the erotic potential of their bodies and started what has become the current style of nipple piercing. These days, people from all walks of life are experiencing their delights. For some, it is an aesthetic preference or fashion statement; for others, it reigns as a favorite in the realm of sexual and sensual pleasures."
Nipple piercings are my specialty, in addition to genital piercings. I can tell you from vast experience that nipple size, configuration, texture, color, sensitivity, and other aspects vary tremendously from person to person. From the petite, flat variety to the largest protruding ones, nipples are usually pierceable, if they are pliable. An exception is severely inverted nipples; more on that topic below.
Every human body really is unique, which is one of the reasons you must seek an expert to perform piercings of this region. It is extremely common to see nipple piercings that are not optimally (or even close to properly) placed. Not only do they lack an attractive aesthetic, but poor placement and improper jewelry selection can make them far more painful than necessary, difficult or impossible to heal, and could even be disfiguring.
You may like the accent of a ring or bar in a single nipple piercing, or prefer the symmetrical appearance of adorning both sides. If you wish to have a pair of nipple piercings, you may wonder if it is preferable to do one and let it heal before adding the second, or to pierce both nipples during the same session. One advantage to having them done at once is that your piercings are complete after a single studio visit and healing period. One advantage of having them done in turn is that you still have one to play with while the other is healing.
Whether you prefer the angle of your piercing to be horizontal, vertical, or somewhere in between, it will work best if it is placed in the natural creases of your tissue.
Whether you prefer the position to be horizontal, vertical, or somewhere in between, nipple piercing works best when placed in your tissue’s natural creases. Depending on the angle and shape of your breasts or pectoral muscles, the “horizontal” placement may be more visually appealing if the outer edge is just a bit higher than the inner side. This tilts the jewelry up at a slight slant that often frames the area nicely. A geometrically horizontal placement can look a little droopy at the outer side on certain chests.
If you have well-developed anatomy, the piercing should be placed in the grooves at the base, where the nipple rises from the areola. If your nipple is defined with substantial height, the piercing can safely go in as little as 5⁄16 inch of tissue. If you have flat nipples, the piercing should generally encompass a minimum of 3⁄8 inch between entry and exit when the area is relaxed. However, some practitioners will pierce the nipple through much less skin, which raises concerns over safety and long-term durability. If your nipples are featureless, without an elevated tip, the tissue in the nipple’s visual center might be pierced so that the jewelry rests evenly within your areola. (While this type of piercing routinely extends into the areola, especially on very small anatomy, it is still considered a nipple piercing.)
If you want a pair of piercings and have large, protruding nipples that are uneven in size, it is often best to position the jewelry at the natural base of each nipple, and not make one side shallower (or deeper) in an attempt to make them match.
Multiple Nipple Piercings
A nipple can be pierced only once in a session; however, after healing, depending on its configuration and dimensions, it may be pierceable a second time. Few nipples are substantial enough to accommodate more than two piercings. Typical arrangements include two horizontal piercings (ordinarily moving closer toward the body for the subsequent hole), a cross (usually with a horizontal placement in front and a vertical behind it), or an X shape formed by two diagonal barbells. Exceptional skills may be required to place additional holes accurately in an already-pierced nipple.
When performed on suitable candidates, piercings can be a remarkable resolution for inverted nipples. If the tip can be coaxed out sufficiently, then the nipple can probably be pierced, and jewelry will block it from retracting.
The medical community assesses them using three different levels of severity, and they are not all equally pierceable:
• Grade 1: The most minor form in which the inverted nipple is easily coaxed out with minimal manipulation. Once out, the nipple maintains its projection fairly well, but usually reverts to its inverted state after a short period of time. In general, this anatomy is well suited to piercing. Placing jewelry in the right spot is usually an effective cure for the inverted nipple.
• Grade 2: The inverted nipple can be pulled out, but not as easily as in Grade 1. The majority of inverted nipples are in this category. More forceful manipulation is required to bring them forth, and after releasing the traction, the nipples slip back to their inverted state quickly. If they can be brought out and kept that way for the procedure, they may be pierceable. It is critical that the skin at the deepest portion of the inversion can be elevated beyond the level of the piercing, or you may end up with a partial piercing that misses the center of the nipple, or a shallow one that migrates through it over time.
• Grade 3: The nipple is severely inverted and very difficult or impossible to pull out manually. It won’t come out all the way and won’t stay that way on its own. These are not pierceable.
Some inverted nipples will pinch up only at an angle that is not standard for a nipple piercing. It is best to let the tissue be your guide and if you won’t be pleased with jewelry at that angle, you should forego piercing.
The nipple pictured below is Grade 1: only slightly inverted and the tip everts easily. It is no problem having this type of anatomy pierced.
Nowadays, straight barbells are the most common jewelry style used for initial nipple piercings. Though earlier in my career, rings were the standard option, so I know they can be used to successfully heal nipple piercings. That said, I almost always use barbells for healing.
I pierce with a 14 gauge minimum thickness, but 12 gauge is suggested for those who enjoy rougher play. It is also more proportionate for those with larger anatomy. I rarely use 10 gauge for initial nipple piercings, and only on highly developed builds.
Initial jewelry diameter is highly anatomy-dependent. One problem I frequently see is that piercers insert jewelry that properly fits the erect nipple. However, some nipples actually double in width when the tissue is relaxed! For safety and comfort, nipple jewelry must be sized to fit the relaxed nipple without pinching. For barbells, 1/16"-1/8" should be added to the post length beyond that, to allow for possible swelling.
For ring diameters, a 9/16" would usually be a minimum that would fit a petite female nipple, but 1/2" could conceivably be suitable for very small nipples that are not flat. Though 5/8" and 3/4" ring diameters are more frequently required, and sometimes larger. If your nipple is wide enough, when relaxed, to need a ring larger than 3/4" in diameter, then bars should definitely be used for your initial jewelry. Rings bigger than that are likely to be cumbersome and cause healing issues.
Another consideration for rings is how they rest inside a bra. With a nipple ring hanging down, depending on bra material and tightness, there's a certain amount of pressure caused by the bra pressing on the bottom of the ring. This, in turn produces a sort of "back pressure" against the top of the jewelry, potentially resulting in migration.
For inverted nipples, because of the extra stress placed on the tissue to return to its inverted state, an inert flexible polymer jewelry may be needed for healing, and 12 gauge should be considered the minimum rather than 14 gauge, if the tissue is sufficient to accommodate it. If flexible is inserted initially, the full alteration of the tissue might not be seen until a metal barbell is in place and offers more resistance to prevent the nipple from returning to its inverted state.
All undergarments and clothing above the waist need to be removed for nipple piercings to make sure the tissue rests naturally. Marking should be done while you’re standing; you may then be positioned anywhere from seated to reclining flat, depending on your piercer’s preference and the furniture in the room. I generally use forceps to perform nipple piercings. For your comfort and to make the procedure smoother, I do tissue manipulation before applying the clamps, especially for tight skin or underdeveloped nipples. If the forceps don’t go on readily, I use a freehand method, as many piercers do. Others prefer a receiving tube technique.
Some studios offer tandem piercings, in which both nipples are pierced simultaneously by two synchronized piercers. This is an excellent option if you are planning to pierce both sides, and you are concerned about being able to tolerate the process. One of the piercers may mark the placement for both nipples to assure symmetry. Nipple sensitivity is dramatically different from person to person. If you have tender nipples, it is all the more important to seek an accomplished technician; it will have a significant impact on your comfort.
Healing and Troubleshooting
Tenderness may come and go due to clothing fit, sleep habits, physical activities, and other factors. Since this area is affected by hormonal fluctuations, many piercees find that they experience a flare-up (secretion, swelling, or discomfort) just before and during menstruation, even long after the healing period.
Nipple piercings can take an extended time to heal completely. They may regress for no apparent reason after months of stability. Should your piercing take an excessively long time to settle, try different jewelry or change care regimens until you figure out what works best. Experimentation can require patience, but adjust at least one aspect before giving up. If you endured the procedure and some of the healing period, it is worth preserving the piercing.
You will probably find that a snug undershirt or smooth-cup bra is helpful for protection and comfort, including while you sleep. A minute or so after settling into a tight garment, the piercing usually feels less tender. Those who are not partial to sleeping in a shirt or bra can wrap a length of clean elastic bandage across the chest and around the body. This type of compression dressing protects the area while still allowing it to breathe, and avoids adhesives that could irritate skin or pull hair upon removal. A disposable nursing pad or cut-to-fit piece of panty liner worn inside a bra will absorb any blood or sweat and also help to conceal your jewelry. Nipple tissue is often rigid and unyielding, so your jewelry might not move easily unless wet or lubricated, even after healing. See “Tightness Is Normal,” page 226 of The Piercing Bible.
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