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July 5, 2012 - 11:23pm
I am so thankful to have had the pleasure of getting pierced by Elayne. Last time she came to Dallas, I got up the nerve for my VCH. She was so professional and comforting and I knew I was in the best hands (especially given all the tremendous research I had done). I wanted a triangle too, but I thought I should let the VCH heal first and not get too enthusiastic. I wish I had gotten the triangle then! I appreciate referrals, but I just can not bring myself to have anyone else do it. I've waited all this time for Elayne to finally come back to Dallas so I emailed her (she always emails me back) and she said she'd be back in Dallas in September! Yes!!! I have alot of patience when it comes to getting something so important done right and I only have a little over two months to go--but she's worth it. I know it will be done RIGHT. Now hurry up September!!!
Cristy & Erik
July 2, 2012 - 5:15am
My husband and myself would like to thank you for your invaluable site, book and referral page! I'd like to share our piercing experience with you and your readers.
After heavily researching first the types of piercings we wanted before deciding. We educated ourselves using the knowledge you provide, along with the information we'd found on the website for the Piercing Emporium in Worcester, MA. (We live just about one hour away from the studio.)
This past Saturday, 6/30, my husband and I turned our piercing journey into a day trip and drove down to the Piercing Emporium. The studio is small, yet extraordinarily clean and welcoming, as was our reception. The young lady at the counter was extremely knowledgeable in helping us with jewelry choices, with a delightful smile and quit wit as a bonus! We'd both requested Marc Williams to be our piercer, as he'd been so highly recommended by you!
After only about an hour's wait in a very busy establishment, we were led to the back by Marc himself. I must say, the piercing room is as hygienic and spotless as any doctor's office I've ever been in. Marc is a very patient professional who took the time to answer our many questions, explain to us what we hadn't asked, and is absolutely Zen-like in his approach to piercing.
My husband went first. His first genital piercing, a PA, had him excited and quite nervous. Marc took the time to talk him through each part of the procedure, his voice very soothing the entire time. With the exception of the big "pinch", which was actually expected, my husband was completely surprised that the PA hurt far, far less than he'd ever imagined it would.
His second piercing was to re-pierce his right nipple which had rejected over eight years ago when he'd had both done. The scar tissue there is fairly thick, and the big "pinch" he expected there was... well, there, but extremely quick. (Plus there was the added benefit of having his nipple 'ache' to distract him from the fact he'd just put an 8g CBR through his penis.)
My turn. I'd come in very excited, and full of trepidation. I'm a 44 year old heavy set woman with multiple body piercings and tattoos who'd decided it was time to get my first genital piercing. A VCH. I'd been so relieved when, instead of facing the "odd look" I'd been expecting, I'd been greeted with warmth and kindness by both the receptionist and Marc himself. I was made to feel extraordinarily comfortable, had the procedure explained to me fully, and with what seemed like no time at all, I was wincing at the "pinch" and it was over! I now am the proud wearer of a 12g (soon to be 10g or 8g after healing) curved titanium barbell with beautiful dark purple beads! Two days later now, our piercings are healing normally, with only the occasional 'sting' of a reminder that they're new.
I'd like to let your readers know that if they don't have one of your recommended piercers close by, it is definitely worth the trip to travel to one! Marc Williams was the most professional, skilled piercer I've ever met, and I'm already thinking forward to where I'd like my next piece of metal!
Thank you, Elayne. Your choice to share your knowledge with us all has definitely done a wonderful service to piercing enthusiasts the world over! You are a woman to be treasured by all who strive to educate themselves before modifying their body. My husband and I are forever grateful for the wealth of information!
If you're going for your first, or twenty-first piercing, I highly recommend perusing the Piercer Referrals on this site! Elayne recommends the best of the best, and you won't be disappointed!
Sincerely, Cristy and Erik
June 25, 2012 - 12:26pm
I decided to do research about getting my VCH a few months ago.I found Elayne's book and site and was very impressed,very well written and i could not put it down!:)Once I had read the book and read the entire blog archive i knew i had to find the right piercer in my area,i would have loved to have gone to elayne but i was not able to travel to her.So the next best thing is to go to one of her piercer referral.There is only one person in MI that is on elayne's list and her name is Tiffany diamond at lady luck piercing and tattoo.I emailed Elayne just to calm my nerves and she reassured me Tiffany was very talented and came highly recommended which i didn't doubt but it was nice to here it from the best:)When it came time for my piercing i was completely overjoyed by how spotless this shop was,i have never seen a more clean place in my life,she sanitized my jewelry right in front of me in what i believe was a autoclave which i had never seen before and i was really impressed:)Any anxiety i had was completely gone once i met Tiffany and saw her process.Tiffany let my very inaugurated boyfriend watch and explained everything step by step.She let me see with a mirror were the piercing would be placed.The piercing itself was so fast that i barley had time to react,just a sharp pinch for a second and its over.Tiffany was very kind and sat and chatted with us for a bit.She is very personable,fun and a true pro ,i am now a loyal customer of Tiffany now because of this amazing experience.When we go back for my check up my bf wants get a furnum piercing because he found the whole experience so relaxing and painless for me, plus how professional Tiffany and the shop was was over all.He is now convinced he wants one:)Im am so thankful to Elayne for the information she has shared with us all,i could not thank her enough.Anyone that brings up piercings i tell them about her book and site.Thank you Elayne!!!
June 14, 2012 - 8:11pm
I wanted 2 first say I'm a fan of Ur work & hopefully someday I will be able 2 get pierced by U.
But I had 2 drop U a quick note regarding the "Body Circle Designs" Jewelry that can b found on Ur site. THIZ JEWELRY IZ AMAZING!!!!! I first bought a j curve barbell for my navel piercing(which I had pierced in 1995) & it made me feel az AWESOME as thee day I had it pierced 17 yrs. ago! I've since ordered from BCD 2 more times & now have their jewelry in 9 of my 12 piercings! So in short THANX 4 posting that site! Great Quality & affordable prices!
& also, I have an autographed copy of "The Piercing Bible"! A GREAT read & a must 4 ANY piercer/piercee!
June 13, 2012 - 2:55pm
After 10 years of thinking about getting a VCH piercing I finally made the decision to get it done. I started doing research on it and found Elayne Angels website an found it to be incredibly helpful! I have always been quite shy when it comes to my vagina and how it looks. My sisters had always made me feel like I was not normal because my anatomy was not the same as theirs. I know this info may seem to have nothing to do with this website or Elayne Angel but it does deep down. After looking over the website for hours over a the course of a week I got the "balls" to get it done. I found a great piercer near me, armed with all the info I got from this website and I did it! With my shyness somewhat under control and my new piercing making me feel more beautiful and sexy I felt amazing. Only one problem, I felt my barbell was a little short. The bottom ball would hide under my hood and I wasn't sure if that would be harmful to the healing process. So again I got the "balls" to email Elayne a picture and ask her advice. She suggested a J Curve barbell. I took her advic and ordered it right away so by the time I was healed I could change it. All I can say is WOW! It was not uncomfortable before but when I swapped the barbells it felt as if I had no piercing at all unless I wanted to feel it : ) I am very sensitive and the J Cruve makes me even more so. It moves easy and I can always see both ends of the jewlery. My husband was worried that the piercing would get in the way of oral sex but with the J Curve he has not complained and neither have I! The link to the store that I purchased my J Curve fr is the one on this website. They shipped it fast and had very reasonable prices. Like I mentioned before I have been shy and teased about the looks of my vagina and what my piercing and Elayne have helped me realize is that it is BEAUTIFUL! Yes this may sound lame or over the top, because it's "just" a piercing. But to me the whole process has really changed my mind frame. I was not shy to get it pierced and was not shy to send Elayne my picture to get her advice. So I would like to thank Elayne and everyone who has submitted questions to this website, & making it not be such a taboo subject!
June 12, 2012 - 9:55am
In Sept Elayne did a VCH for me in Oklahoma City. When it came to picking jewelry, since I don't have a fav color we went with her fav which is purple *since then I've changed to a pearl*. Most of the reviews that I saw prior to having mine done weren't very informative so rather than give a review on day one, I waited to fully heal. The whole process was quick and painless; seriously it was over before I even knew she had started. A quick pinch and a pass of the mirror and I was done! The outside healing process was quick, the interior healing took a bit longer possibly because I didn't wait the proper healing time before having sex again *shame on me* but I did soak afterwards and all ended up well. I did/do have the occasional issue with some irritation where the top ball hits the skin, I think It’s from running and sweating. If you buy Elayne’s book *you REALLY should* you'll be able to identify and understand what I'm talking about. Since I’ve changed to dry fit exercise panties and leggings it doesn’t happen very often. It's nothing serious and a quick soak seems to clear it up. I do have days where the piercing irritates me other days I can’t feel it all. For me it doesn’t enhance sex any, at times I find it a bit bothersome especially if you’re using toys.
Thanks again Elayne for beautifully decorating my cupcake <3
Thanking Elayne Angel!!!
June 8, 2012 - 11:40pm
Because of all the information given on this site, in the piercing bible, and the procedure videos I've watched by Elayne Angel I have definitely been educated in piercings. Well at least to feel comfortable enough to get my first piercing a few days ago! Which was a VCH piercing and I Love it! Its absolutely perfect! I knew exactly what to expect and to look out for before, during, and after my piercing experience. Anyone considering a piercing should research using all these things as well and definitely make use of Elayne Angel's "Piercer Referrals." I did and was pierced by Tiffany Diamond @ Lady Luck Tattoo in Waterford,MI. Definitely worth the research!!! Happy Piercing!
Monica A. Gomez
June 7, 2012 - 7:07pm
Your knowledge about piercings has educated me so much, and I appreciate all the medical terminology words you use. Initially, I used to be a general piercer back in my youth, since people would easily want holes into their flesh. Some common piercings I did involved: belly, hands, nose, eyebrow, ears, and so-on. Then the more difficult piercing's I felt were: tongue, penis, and vagina. Secondly, still I know there are other new piercings like: embedded jewelery. Embedded jewelery can be pierced just about anywhere like the eyebrow, belly, cheeks, hands, chest, and further-on. My question to you is: can you do an embedded jewelery piercing underneath the skin of the vagina or penis? Obviously I think a true professional piercer can embed jewelery under the skin of the penis or vagina if done correctly. The main point is that your topic on piercing the hardest areas of a humans body are: the penis and the vagina. Third and last, you typed a lot of great safe details as: "taking vitamin K prior to piercing, no aspirin, no caffeine, and the length of time like 4-8 weeks of healing time." Even about the sensual arousing side of the way a piercing should be placed into skin, for couples. Your website proves its professionalism through detailed links of: female genitals, male genitals, and ftm's genital piercing's. The piercing pricing seems of reasonable value $100-$50 because it is done right. Your book also played an the ultimate guide to more information concerning the correct ways to pierce. Thank you, for advising the laws of piercing!!!!-)
-Monica A. Gomez
Comment by angel
Thanks for your comments. I believe you're talking about surface anchors (the preferred terminology of the Association of Professional Piercers). They are sometimes called "microdermals" or "microdermal implants," but those terms have caused problems due to confusion about these being a more serious form of body modification. They have been outlawed in some areas as a result. But basically they are quite similar to a piercing.
Unfortunately, however, even when everything is done right, surface anchors simply appear to be less of a permanent body modification than traditional body piercings.
Regardless of placement on the body, they require ongoing care throughout their life span, including regular irrigation to make sure no matter builds up in the channel or under the ornament. And even with this care, sometimes they will tilt and/or surface and reject.
I think the most important thing you can do is be aware of this and not to consider them as permanent an adornment as a traditional body piercing.
May 26, 2012 - 4:34pm
Hello Elayne! I need to say thank you firstly for taking the time to help me in my decision making process. I am so happy that my search for information led me to your website and then to your book! you have been so helpful and willing to share your time and knowledge with me. it is very important to me to be well informed and confident in my choice of what type of gential piercing I am best suited for but also, to be confident in the person who will be doing that piercing. Now armed with the information in The Piercing Bible and knowing that you have a referral ( post-dyslexia ;) ) to Derek at Saint Sabrina's, I am excited to get this done. I hope to schedule an appointment with him in the near future... that is unless you would by chance be making travel plans to visit the Upper Midwest some time this year?!! Regardless... I hope that some day I am able to meet you, thank you in person and maybe get yet another piercing! You are an inspiration!!! ps. I'll be back with an update after I have it done... :)
May 22, 2012 - 4:56am
I had decided to get a vch piercing and went to a local place who declined to do it as my anatomy wasn't suited. I contacted Elayne Angel who informed me that actually it is and recommended Julie at Cold Steel. I arrived at the studio which is very pleasant and professional in appearance, Julie was at the desk she was welcoming and approachable. I completed the required paper work and paid my money, I had decided to get my nipples repierced too whilst I was there and Julie advised me just to do one as getting both at the same time can cause healing problems as you don't have a side to lay on. We went upstairs to the room, it was clean, tidy and professional. Julie made me feel at ease, she marked the position for the vch and showed me in a mirror, Julie said that they do rings or bars I said I would prefer a bar, when she had checked me she determined that this was possible. Julie also explained why she had chosen to off set the piercing, this was because of my design and it would look correct when positioned, she was right it looks great. I found it quite painful but that may just be me. Julie talked me through the whole process. We then proceed to pierce my right nipple. Julie marked it first and talked me through this process it was not as painful as the vch and I have a bar which looks good. The after care advice was verbal as well as written, Julie stated that I could ring any time if I had any concerns and requested that I come back when I feel healed enough on my right side to have piercing check and get my left nipple done. In conclusion a very professional and knowledgable establishment, I can't recommend them enough. Just want to say thank you Elayne for your advice, support, referral and website as without all of this I would not have even considered a vch at 48.
May 8, 2012 - 6:56am
May 5, 2012 - 12:38pm
Dear Elayne, I wanted to "Thank you" for a job well done. I was on the fence about getting a genital piercing, hearing horror stories of other peoples' experiences.But after doing some research, I stumbled upon your website. I liked what I saw, and thought you were the right person for my 1st piercing. I opted for the Triangle piercing. Although, my appointment was scheduled in advanced for Friday, April 13th, I really wasn't going to allow the friggatriskaidekaphobia, to deter me in any way and I am very happy that it didn't. It's been almost a month now, and I must say I am happy with the healing process. It wasn't as bad as I anticipated. I am loving my new look! You carry yourself in such a professional manner, that made my experience worth while. I will be contacting you for the next piercing, a VCH, very soon!!! Thanks again, and keep doing a great job!!
May 4, 2012 - 9:14am
I just want to say I've been wanting a piercing for a while and I have finally joined the club thanks to Elayne!! Elayne I want to say "Thanks so much!" Though we haven't met it is all because of you that I was able to get pierced confidently and correctly! I read your page look and your pics and was DEAD SET on only being pierced by YOU!! Unfortunately you weren't going to be in the PA region until July. I was Devastated and almost gave up hope until I decided to look at your recommendations. I went to Infinite and Kellan pierced me! I got there at 8:30pm May 2,2012 and was taken immediately! Kellan is awesome!! He was very personable, friendly, and knowledgeable. I almost forgot it was a stranger handling me down there! LOL!! I felt great when I left and still feel great!! Thank you so much for the info, pics, emails, and recommendation.I WOULDN'T have done it without you! Seriously...I passed up opportunities. Since May 2nd I have two more people that want to see Kellan or You!!I do want to meet you in July...Keep Me Posted plz.
May 2, 2012 - 1:49pm
I can not express how wonderful my piercing experience with Elayne was! She is teh piercing angel :) After being in a funk for a while feeling old and not very attractive or sexy- I stumbled upon Elayne's page and read how a grandmother got pierced- and how wonderful she felt about her self. Well I realized Elayne was coming to Phylie and contacted her immediately- unfortunately she was booked- but somehow it was meant to be as she had a cancellation! I booked my flight from Portland Maine and drove myself crazy waiting thinking if I should really go through with this- will it make me feel as good as I think? No doubt! Elayne was so personable- professional and the best piercer and artist I have ever met! I got two piercings a new type of triangle Elayne invented and a VHC- all in gold and beautiful! The healing has been great- easy and I am out of my funk! Thanks Elayne for making me feel HOT again :) I highly recommend everyone gets pierced by you!
April 22, 2012 - 5:54am
Somehow – can you explain these things, anybody? – I’d gotten interested in the idea of a second piercing, having gotten a PA from Elayne a year and a half ago, and been very happy with it. Of all the other genital piercings, only the ampallang really appealed to me, but 1. not many people seemed to get them, and why was that? And 2. it’s obviously a somewhat daunting procedure. And then again 3. it takes a while to heal and you’re not supposed to go in swimming pools! Or have sex! I convinced myself I could deal with these things, one way or another. I got on Elayne Angel’s email list and discovered she was coming back to Philadelphia in April – but I dithered about actually making an appointment. By the time I did email her, she was all booked up, every half-hour every day, with a waiting list; so I figured, ok, never mind, I guess that was not a good idea and I’m fine with that, whew! But – a few weeks later – Elayne told me she had a spot after all – “I guess it was meant to be,” she said. I kind of thought, uh-oh, maybe it really is, so I booked the spot on April 16 and paid Elayne and started taking vitamin K. This gave me quite a few weeks to ponder whether or not this really was a good idea. I think what kept me committed is that my life has been very unhappy for the last year and more and I liked the idea of having a sort of extreme experience -- to give me less time and energy to contemplate being miserable. And I knew it would not be a huge deal to cancel, if I really really didn’t want to go through with it.
But, reader, I did. I showed up and contemplated all the jewelry at Infinite Piercing for 15 minutes and then Elayne came bouncing (she does not literally bounce, but gives that impression) out, put my jewelry (12g) in the sterilizer, and off we went. It is really worth getting pierced just to meet this woman – she radiates positive vibes in all directions and after a few minutes with her your heartbeat slows down to normal and you really think this may not be such a crazy thing to do after all. Even though she’s so scheduled, she seems to have all the time in the world to figure out the correct placement of your jewelry; it’s an absolutely unique experience to sit there with this nice lady seriously considering the configuration of your penis, and pointing out where the natural folds etc. are – things that, however much time you have spent with your penis, you have probably never thought about. Finally –- the little Sharpie marks are made, erased, and remade, and we agree that everything looks right. Somehow I would be happy to talk about this for another, oh, half-hour or so at least, but it really is time to do it -- like when you finally have to jump into the cold ocean and swim. Elayne practices her grip and gets her little instrument ready. I’m trying to do my yoga breaths and not wiggle around a lot, since I certainly don’t want to throw her off. Her touch is gentle but very firm, like a very good, strong massage therapist. Finally the needle (or is it a scalpel?) penetrates on my right -- there is a sharp pinch, a lot of pressure, a then a short strong wave of pain when the needle comes out the other side – Elayne had asked me not to swing my legs but they straightened out anyway. I was there for all this, and yet not quite there. But it was done, except for putting in the jewelry, which she did very quickly; and there it was, my newly decorated penis, looking pretty amazing (and very bloody!) Elayne congratulated me, and we had a little philosophical discussion about things that are “meant to be” – how her business was destroyed by Katrina but she ended up in Mexico, her book got published, and she does guest piercings all over the country. I got dressed and hugged her, and went home, very much wanting to be there and cool out, and paying the strictest possible attention to driving, and not the sensations in my crotch. The piercing was about 3:50 and it’s now 5:13 – bleeding seems to be slowing down somewhat and there is a mild throbbing sensation on the left side of the penis, where the needle came out. Days later -- I still feel like a little kid with new cowboy boots, except I can't show them to everybody, of course. I've had some bleeding, on and off, less every day, most at night if I have sexual dreams, which I have more of, since this piercing enforces a period of very strict celibacy -- you won't even think about touching yourself, let alone letting anyone else touch you.( This is -- interesting -- I find it makes anyone who is even moderately attractive look absolutely gorgeous. I was in a little cafe this morning and all the waitresses looked like goddesses, really.) Sensations at night include a rather dramatic squeezing in the glans, as the tissue expands around the barbell. Another post-piercing thought was sort of wishing I had a video -- which would be nice -- except I find that recording an event changes it; I can't really be inside the experience in the same way if I'm recording it. So I'm ok with just remembering. Overall -- no big problems -- not too much blood -- and the piercing seems to me astonishingly sexy. But that's just me. Thank you Elayne!
April 19, 2012 - 5:35pm
Thank you Elayne! You are a wonderful person and an amazing piercer!
I love the VCH and nipple piercings! The "treatment" looks great and they all feel pretty good too:) I can't wait until they're healed!
You were so lovely and calming and kind and I'm so very glad that I was pierced by you on April 16th. I can't wait until I go back for my triangle!
Thanks again, N
April 17, 2012 - 11:27pm
I had the pleasure of being pierced by Elayne in Philadelphia on of all the days of the year Friday the 13th. That did scare me a bit but it went better than expected.I am extremely needle phobic and if I could get through it anyone can. Elayne was very professional and gentle so I did not worry at all and felt completely at ease that I was getting my piercing done by the best person in the world. I got both a VCH and Triangle and I must say I am thrilled!!!!!! She was so gentle that the piercing I thought would hurt really badly, the triangle, did not hurt more than the triangle at all. If anything it was the same level of discomfort. Healing has been great, I am following all her instructions and a day later I had no major discomfort. I can't wait for them to heal completely and experiment with different jewelry. Elayne is simply the best and everyone should travel no matter how far to get their piercings done. You will have no regrets. It is so worth it!
April 17, 2012 - 7:43am
I am extremely pleased with my decision to be pierced by Elayne at Infinite. She is not only knowledgeable, but she is passionate about her craft and that is reflected in the quality of work. I came in, contemplating either a VCH or a clitoral piercing and after a brief consultation and feedback as to my expectations, Elayne recommended a VCH. She readied her tools while talking me through the process. "Deep breath, exhale, and you will be pierced. I do not count to 3". Well just as easy as that it was over. Similar to the sensation of an ear lobe piercing, only in your lady parts. As she tightened my jewelry, I actually was laughing because physically this is a low pain procedure. Any stress or discomfort stems from your own psychological inhibitions and horror stories of those pierced by inexperienced piercers. Elayne is the best of the best and I am honored to have been pierced by her.
April 16, 2012 - 6:32pm
It was nice meeting you yesterday! You, and the staff at Infinite Body Piercing, made me feel welcome and very comfortable! I was a little nervous about getting pierced but your inviting and friendly personality put me at ease! I am very happy with my VCH piercing. I have no discomfort and I honestly don't even know its there!
April 16, 2012 - 7:59am
Thank you so much for doing my VCH piercing yesterday. Getting my piercing done by you was one of the greatest experiences I have ever had. Your tenderness coupled with your professionalism has me screaming "GO GET PIERCED BY ELAYNE!" from the rooftops. You are amazingly down to earth and while I was hopelessly star struck (and still am) you and the piercing were not in the least bit intimidating. I spent the rest of the day talking my boyfriend's ear off about how comfortable I was and how great the piercing feels already. I can't wait until it's healed, and neither can he ;-) Thank you for all of your hard work and if I ever decide to get anymore piercings, you will be the first person I think of.
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